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News :: Texas
Last Updated: Oct 16, 2009 - 9:40:24 AM


Rodeo director’s ‘whipping’ comment proves need for kiss-in, QL activist says


By John Wright | News Editor wright@dallasvoice.com
Oct 15, 2009 - 6:00:34 PM
Fairness Fort Worth spokesman says event planned at Stockyards not likely to have lasting impact

Blake Wilkinson
FORT WORTH — The executive director of the Stockyards Championship Rodeo insists that comments he made recently to a TV station suggesting that participants in a queer kiss-in planned for this weekend “need a good whipping” were taken out of context and weren’t intended to promote violence against anyone.

But the founder of Queer LiberAction, the Dallas-based direct action group that’s organizing the demonstration in the Stockyards on Saturday, called the comments “egregious” and “disgusting” and said they’re emblematic of the same homophobic Cowtown culture that fueled the recent Rainbow Lounge raid.

Hub Baker, the longtime executive director of the city-owned facility, told NBC 5 that while everyone is welcome in the Stockyards, he’s not a fan of public kissing — gay or straight.

“Manners are manners,” Baker told NBC 5. “If they don’t act right among cowboys, maybe they need to get a good whipping.”

Asked to clarify his remarks, Baker told Dallas Voice he’s concerned that the demonstration is merely intended to stir up trouble and might become lewd in what is designed to be a family-friendly environment.

“I was talking about cowboys and the way they raise their kids,” Baker told Dallas Voice. “I was saying that if a child steps out of line, we give them a whipping. I wasn’t talking about whipping anybody who is gay or lesbian or anything like that. It wasn’t meant that way, because everybody’s welcome in the Fort Worth Stockyards.”

QL founder Blake Wilkinson isn’t so sure.

“He’s really making our point for us, that Fort Worth and especially the stockyards is probably not the most pro-GLBT place out there, but I think that was pretty well understood before we selected the location,” Wilkinson said.

Wilkinson compared Baker’s remark to comments made by Fort Worth Police Chief Jeffrey Halstead and Mayor Mike Moncrief in the wake of the Rainbow Lounge raid. Halstead at one point appeared to try to justify the raid by suggesting that bar patrons made sexual advances toward his officers, while Moncrief awkwardly retracted an apology for the June 28 incident.

“It seems as though the whole city has a huge problem with PR, and especially a huge problem with bad PR toward the GLBT community,” Wilkinson said. “There’s a lot of fear within the GLBT community in Fort Worth. It’s understandable, the fear, but that doesn’t preclude us from standing up for ourselves, and going out there and being visible and saying we deserve all the same respect and all the same rights as everybody else.”

Jon Nelson, a spokesman for Fairness Fort Worth, the LGBT group formed in the wake of the Rainbow Lounge raid, called Baker’s comments a “knee-jerk reaction” to media inquiries about the kiss-in, and suggested they were irresponsible given the prominent position he occupies.

But Nelson added that he believes the Stockyards is a gay-friendly place. And he said that while he supports Queer Liberaction’s right to stage the kiss-in, he doesn’t believe it will have a lasting impact on the city.

Lt. Paul Henderson, chief of staff for Halstead, said this week that the city encourages peaceful protests but won’t have extra officers on hand for the event, outside of a bicycle patrol that is routinely assigned to the Stockyards on weekends.

“We fully expect it to be a peaceful event. We may have some counterdemonstrators, but if they step over the line on either side and they break the law, then our officers will be there to enforce the law,” Henderson said.

“I think his [Baker’s] comments were tongue in cheek and not meant to be threatening in any manner. Certainly you have a different culture with cowboys and with their language and he may have been allowing his Western heritage and his culture to be coming out. The Police Department doesn’t believe it was intended as a threat.” •

The kiss-in will be from 5 p.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday at 130 E. Exchange Ave., across the street from Risky’s Barbeque.

This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition October 16, 2009.

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The following comments were posted by readers and were not edited by Dallas Voice. When you comment, stay on topic and treat others with respect. Posts deemed offensive will be removed.
Brian
Oct 15, 2009 at 23:21
And this "publicity stunt" helps us? Really? How does it help us?

So, cowboys will change their minds about us because we try to offend them? I've never reacted positively because someone offended me. I'd rather be informed and persuaded.

The Dallas LGBT activist community is a mess.
Mark Giesh
Oct 16, 2009 at 00:29
If Fort Worth is truly inclusive and non-discriminatory, then why all the uproar about the Kiss-In this Saturday? It should be a non-issue. It being an issue shows that Fort Worth is not inclusive and discriminates.

Lt. Paul Henderson should be pressing criminal charges against the rodeo director for making public threats against the LGBT community.

If it were the other way around, a member of the LGBT community making a public threat against a city official, would Lt. Paul Henderson be pressing charges against the LGBT person?

Given the level of public threats, coupled with the protestors and threats made recently, basic common sense would dictate that the Fort Worth Police place extra officers in the Stockyards for this event to ensure no violence takes place.
Rich McPhee
Oct 16, 2009 at 07:18
John Wright, the Queer Kiss-in is actually scheduled to begin at 5:00 PM on Saturday. Also, while Queer Liberaction primarily initiated itself in Dallas. Queer Liberaction has always been and will always be a North Texas organization with chapters in Dallas, Forth Worth, and Denton. Thank you
David McFatridge
Oct 16, 2009 at 09:21
I can't believe extra police will not be on duty. How could FW be so foolish. If a gay bashing occurs in the stockyards before ,during or after this protest, it will reinforce the negative image of FW. I'm sure the Internet will spread the story around the world in a few hours. Wake up FW, your rep is at stake here!
John Wright
Oct 16, 2009 at 09:42
Rich,
Thanks, I have fixed the time in the online version of the story.
David Mcfatridge
Oct 16, 2009 at 13:31
To Brian, its OK for you to stay in your closet, we will call you when its safe to come out but don't expect us to join you.
Misty
Oct 16, 2009 at 13:37
With all due respect, I'll have to Agree with Brian. It's just not a very advantageous way to be taken seriously & demand the equal respect that we utterly deserve. It's more of an IN-your-face 'publicity stunt' to prove some point that can be made in less offensive ways. Not offensive in that fact that we are Gay and kissing, because a significant group of straight people getting together in a family oriented place 'mugging down' hardcore could be considered highly offensive just the same. Goes back to 'there is a time and a place' whether straight or gay.

Rich McPhee
Oct 16, 2009 at 14:41
Who said anything about "'mugging down' hardcore. A kiss on the cheek or lips, a hug, and holding hands is not very provocative. Remember were the oppressed group here. If we don't visibly show ourselves to the community will always remain oppressed. Straight couples hold hands and kiss without the fear of persecution. We do! Whether straight couples are cognizant of it or not they still do it. The kiss-in is a direct way of showing our right to convey our love just as straight couples.
boB
Oct 16, 2009 at 14:42
I went to one of their kiss-ins in Dallas, hopefully they get a bigger crowd. Not much happened we just stood around. someone brought Hershey's Kisses and passed those out to passers by. They had a couple signs. Not much of a demonstration.

For this to be a real 'publicity stunt' people need to actually show up.
Brian
Oct 16, 2009 at 16:16
If the equality game is about changing minds ... offending people doesn't work.

Perhaps QL can give us some examples of when that tactic has actually worked.
Brett Sandy
Oct 16, 2009 at 17:43
Brian,

When African Americans were being integrated into white schools, lots of people were offended. They now have full and equal rights under the law.

Women of the 60's burned their bras during their fight for equality - pretty offensive. They now have full and equal rights.

This kiss-in is not intended by nature to be offensive... It just so happens that people are offended by open homosexual displays of tasteful affection. Which is precisely what QL is attempting to abolish. I cringe when I hold my partners hand in public. I look over my shoulder to see if anyone is looking when I kiss him good bye on campus. I feel the eyes of judgment and hate burning into the back of my head when I peck him on the cheek. When was the last time you think the majority of straight people have felt that?
Brian
Oct 16, 2009 at 22:43
No kidding - you just compared gays kissing in front of cowboys in order to get media attention, to the forced integration of our schools?

Really? Amazing.
Brett Sandy
Oct 17, 2009 at 10:35
Brian,

You have an amazing way of twisting what people say to fit whatever skewed perception you maintain.

My understanding was that you asked for examples where tactics of offending people worked to change minds. Not that you asked for examples where people did things to gain media attention to change peoples mind.

The fact that the media is paying attention to this event is exactly the reason why an event like this needs to be held. Save the Dallas voice and a few other queer publications, Queer LiberAction's previous kiss ins did not generate media attention. Some of their events do... some of them don't. And if the media is there to expose the gay life style, I think its important we welcome them. When the cameras and reports show up to the stockyards today they will not find naked guys getting busy in the park. They will not find lesbians mackin' down on the park bench. They will find a group of proud homosexuals sharing a moment together. Just as any straight person may do - with a peck on the cheek, a kiss on the lips or a warm embraces. They will find a passionate group of people exposing the bigotry and backward thinking of the hate mongers. Or, the media will expose nothing at all... showing that Ft. Worth is not as bigoted as they have been pegged to be.
Brian
Oct 18, 2009 at 09:06
Stupid. Just plain ole stupid.
David McFatridge
Oct 19, 2009 at 22:44
OH No Brett,
Don't expose the homo life style to the hetro. They Will freak out to find out we homo's are their neighbor, friend , brother or coworker. We pay taxes, serve in the military, hold public office. We are alike in every way but one. This would cause immediate culture shock!
Jason P.
Oct 20, 2009 at 23:09
Blake is the only one actually doing something in DFW. He understands that we need to demand and embarrass to get results.

He is a good Leader and more people should follow him.
Kenny Williams
Oct 25, 2009 at 00:05
I think this is crazy hosting a "kiss in" of all things. We are in a epedimic with all types of diseases and infections, some are scared to even shake hands much less kiss. Hope you know the one you kissed real good.The hetros' will talk bad about gays with stuff like this. You dont see straights doing this. You would have been better of having a bake sale.

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