Here’s a quick look at the Tarrant County Gay Pride Week Parade through downtown this afternoon (Saturday, Oct. 3). Stay tuned for more photos from the parade and the festival in General Worth Square AND from the TCGPWA picnic coming up tomorrow (Sunday, Oct. 4). at Trinity Park.
Out & Equal staff is already in Dallas preparing for the Out & Equal Workplace Summit taking place at the Hilton Anatole on Oct. 6-8.
More than 3,000 will attend next week’s convention. They’ll be coming from 48 states and 31 countries.
Among the latest confirmed attendees are White House LGBT liaison Aditi Hardikar and Australia’s human rights commissioner, according to Chief Development Officer Rachel Rubin.
Most events are for attendees only, however, the AT&T Workplace Summit Career Pavilion that takes place on Wednesday, Oct. 7 in the exhibit hall, has been opened to students. Representatives from a number of companies will be available for career counseling and some may even do some hiring.
Some conference attendees will arrive early to participate in Leadership Day. Rubin said they’ll take a “deep dive” into topics like employee resource group leadership and other topics related to diversity in a business setting.
Dallas Voice will have more coverage of the conference throughout the week.
I only recently discovered Caorunn gin, a small-batch gin created, surprisingly, in Scotland. But bartenders have known about it for a while at least (I found one recipe from last fall prepared by Henderson Avenue’s hipstery dive bar The Gin Mill, called Gin, Smoke & Lies, made with amaro, pineapple, hibiscus syrup and lime). I’m a big gin drinker, though, so here are a few more recipes culled from mixologists around the U.S., that fall into a category called “shrub drinks” (“shrubs” usually combine 1 cup each fruit juice and sugar with vinegar and citric acid, plus other ingredients as needed).
Lost & Found (created by Vincent Favella, Brooklyn)
1 oz. Caorunn gin
3/4 oz. prickly pear shrub
Making it: Whip-shake gin and shrub with one ice cube; pour into coupe glass; top to taste with champagne. Garnish with orange twist.
The Brand New Companion (created by Scott Koehl, Chicago)
2 oz. Caorunn gin
Blueberry balsamic shrub
3/4 oz Cynar
3/4 oz. sweet vermouth
1/2 oz. simple syrup
Making it: Stir together ingredients, and serve in a Nick Nora glass. Garnish with lemon.
Brooklyn Sunset (created by Tony Del Pino)
2 ox. Caorunn gin
5 oz. lime juice
1/2 oz. ginger shrub
Making it: Combine first three ingredients in a cocktail shaker; strain into a Collins glass. Top with club soda to taste. Garnish with a lime wheel.
Despite Kim Davis’ rapturous description of how Pope Francis embraced her and her bigoted efforts to continue to refuse to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, it now looks like the pope isn’t as big a Kim Davis fan as she led us to believe.
In fact, Vatican officials today (Friday, Oct. 2) released statements that totally contradict the implication that Davis had been specifically invited by the pope for a special meeting.
“Pope Francis was kind, genuinely caring, and very personable. He even asked me to pray for him. Pope Francis thanked me for my courage and told me to ‘stay strong,’” Davis told CNN earlier this week. Davis said she put her hand out to greet the pontiff, and that “he hugged me, and I hugged him.”
Mat Staver, the Liberty Counsel founder and Davis’ lawyer, told CNN the meeting lasted about 10 minutes and was just between the pope, Davis and her husband. Staver was not at the meeting, but said that Pope Francis hugged Davis and gave her and her husband both rosaries, and that Davis gave her rosary to her parents, who are Catholic.
After the meeting, Davis told ABC News, “Just knowing the pope is on track with what we’re doing, and agreeing, you know, kind of validates everything.”
But now it’s looking like Davis’ “everything” isn’t so valid after all.
Vatican officials initially refused to either confirm or deny that Pope Francis had met with Davis, and then later acknowledged that the meeting took place. But, they are now adding, Davis was just one of “several dozen” folks that the pope greeted during a reception at the Vatican Embassy just before he left Washington, D.C. And, officials have said, it wasn’t the Pope who asked for Davis to be there, but instead an embassy official that extended the invitation.
Vatican spokesman the Rev. Federico Lombardi, released this statement:
“Such brief greetings occur on all papal visits and are due to the Pope’s characteristic kindness and availability. The only real audience granted by the Pope at the Nunciature was with one of his former students and his family.
“The Pope did not enter into the details of the situation of Mrs. Davis and his meeting with her should not be considered a form of support of her position in all of its particular and complex aspects.”
And as NPR’s Sylvia Poggioli reports from Italy, “the Rev. Thomas Rosica, English language assistant at the Holy See Press Office, says that Francis may not have understood ‘the impact’ a visit with Davis might have in the U.S.; Rosica also says the group that included Davis was selected by the nunciature, the Vatican’s diplomatic office in D.C.”
To top it all off, not only is the Vatican now stressing that the Pope is not “on track” with Kim Davis and her bigotry, it appears that the “former student” and his family that Rev. Lombardi referred to in his statement is a gay man and his partner and some friends, according to the New York Times.
Yayo Grassi, an openly gay man living in Washington, D.C., told the Times that his a former student of the pope, and that he had been granted a meeting with the pontiff. Grassi said he was accompanied by his partner of 19 years, Iwan Bagus, and four friends.
Contacted by phone, a former student of Francis, Yayo Grassi, said he had been granted a meeting with the pope. Mr. Grassi is an openly gay man living in Washington, and he said he had been accompanied by his partner of 19 years, Iwan Bagus, as well as four friends.
According to the New York Times, “Mr. Grassi, a 67-year-old caterer, said that his group met with Francis at the Vatican Embassy on Sept. 23 — a day before Ms. Davis met the pope. In the 1960s, Jorge Mario Bergoglio, as the future pope was called, taught Mr. Grassi Argentine literature and psychology at the Colegio de la Inmaculada Concepción, a Jesuit high school in Santa Fe, Argentina.”
The New York City Council voted this week to make the Stonewall Inn a historic landmark. This finalizes the vote the Landmarks Preservation Commission took in June.
The Stonewall Inn, a gay bar on Christopher Street in Manhattan’s Greenwich Village, is considered to be the birthplace of the modern gay rights movement.
When police raided the bar on June 26, 1969, drag queens and trans women rebelled. The scene was repeated every night for a week.
To celebrate the designation, the New York Daily News posted a video of Gov. Andrew Cuomo marrying a gay couple in front of the landmark bar.
I was invited to capture what Pride means to me. For many that is an easy request. It means solidarity, social justice, becoming more visible, finding a voice, being with a larger community with a similar story to commiserate and celebrate.
I remember my very first Pride parade many, many years ago in Austin. The thing I remember most is the continual unfolding of the sense of being “not alone.” It was wonderful. I felt more courageous in expressing my truth.
And yet, I can struggle. I struggle with special days set aside to really “be who we are,” or to “be recognized and celebrated.” It smacks a little of tokenism and I don’t want a day, I want every day, and I want that for every person — that steady trickle of acceptance, celebration, being seen and heard.
I want Pride to have a shelf life, for every group that finds themselves labeled in any way.
Poet David Whyte has written: “Courage is a word that tempts us to think outwardly, to run bravely against opposing fire, to do something under besieging circumstance, and perhaps, above all, to be seen to do it in public, to show courage; to be celebrated in story, rewarded with medals, given the accolade, but a look at its linguistic origins leads us in a more interior direction and toward its original template, the old Norman French, Coeur, or heart.
“Courage is the measure of our heartfelt participation with life, with another, with a community, a work, a future. To be courageous, is not necessarily to go anywhere or do anything except to make conscious those things we already feel deeply and then to live through the unending vulnerabilities of those consequences. To be courageous is to seat our feelings deeply in the body and in the world: to live up to and into the necessities of relationships that often already exist, with things we find we already care deeply about: with a person, a future, a possibility in society, or with an unknown that begs us on and always has begged us on. Whether we stay or whether we go — to be courageous is to stay close to the way we are made.”
For me Pride parades are an invitation to the much deeper soul work of “staying close to the way we are made,” and in so doing, getting closer to the way those around us are made. It’s a clarion call to relationship that is deep and vulnerable work.
Pride is an external, embodied ritual that will hopefully lead us to the internal ritual of recognizing our own beauty and worth. The challenging part is that it asks us not only to do that for ourselves and those who understand our stories because they share some piece of our story, but to also cast the net wider and see the same beauty and worth in those beyond our stories, including those who protest and want to suppress our stories.
The Pride event is a way to practice our courage, so that when we step away from that space into the larger space of the larger world we do so with our whole heart and “heartfelt participation with life, with another, with a community, a work, a future.” It takes great courage to live this way.
Stay close to the way you are made. Have courage. Happy Pride to all of creation in every day.
The Rev. S. David Wynn Sr. is lead pastor of Agape MCC Church in Fort Worth. He has a Masters of Theological Studies degree from Perkins School of Theology at Southern Methodist University in Dallas, and is a shamanic practitioner and reiki master.
Tents interfere with enjoying the parade
I really enjoyed the [2015 Alan Ross Texas Freedom] Parade, but it took a long time to find a spot to watch the parade because of the tents up and down the street allowing only their party — no matter how small — to see the parade.
This has gotten totally out of hand in the last couple of years. It doesn’t represent the message of inclusivity and equality of the parade when the city or the tavern owners guild allows people to claim space to see the parade.
Most people with tents weren’t even watching the parade. They were sitting around playing with their phones, playing beer pong, or the tents were almost completely empty but still had “do not enter” caution tape draped around their claimed space. I have a few pictures showing this.
I have never seen any other city allowing this during a parade. These are not the businesses that sent up the space between their business and the street I am addressing (to make a few extra bucks, which is also sleazy). Evidently anyone can set up a tent along the route and keep anyone else out as long as you show up early and have an obnoxious tent.
This is wrong.
Tom Cunningham, via email
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition October 2, 2015.
Friday 10.02 —Sunday 11.01
Denise Lee sings the blues … again
Is it typecasting or the role of a lifetime? Frankly, we don’t care — we just know that, even though M. Denise Lee has portrayed Billie Holiday in two prior productions of Lady Day at Emerson’s Bar & Grill, we’re happy she’s back in a new version at Jubilee Theatre about the final concert by the legendary blues singer and tragic figure. This is the same role that won Audra McDonald her fifth Tony. Eh. We still prefer to see Denise in it.
506 Main St.
Saturday 10.03—Sunday 10.18
Gay Latinas get hip-hop treatment in Cara Mia’s ‘Blu’
Here’s a story you don’t hear told every day: A queer Latina couple raising a family in a society ravaged by gang violence, told in the form of an epic poem flavored with hip-hop. But that’s exactly what Cara Mia is taking on with Blu, a play by San Antonio native Virginia Grise. Rene Moreno directs the mix of modern musical and spoken word.
Latino Cultural Center
2600 Live Oak St.
Live ‘La Vida Ricky’ at Gexa concert
From Menudo cutie to daytime hottie to international pop sensation to gay icon, Ricky Martin has been in the public eye (and he’s an eyeful) for decades. And he hasn’t slowed down. The guy who popularized Spanglish and electrified dancefloors with his sultry moves on songs like “Livin’ La Vida Loca” and “She-Bangs” is in concert Sunday. If you were lucky enough to win our ticket giveaway, you already have your plans in place, but there’s still time to get seats to what may be the last big outdoor concert of the summer season. (Opening acts are Wisin and Ha*ash.)
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition October 2, 2015.
Whet your appetite: October is chock full of foodie fundraisers and functions
ARNOLD WAYNE JONES | Executive Editor
Fall is sort of synonymous with eating: Thanksgiving, Halloween candy, pumpkin spiced lattes, German Oktoberfests. And Dallas hits it full force starting this week.
It begins, as it has the past seven years, with Burgers & Burgundy, the annual benefit for DIFFA that includes sliders and munchies crafted by some of the top chefs in North Texas (pictured). Only this year, it’s not just Texas representin’ — lead chef/organizer John Tesar (Knife, Oak, El Bolero) has invited nationally-known chefs like Justin Brunson (Old Major) and Kris Morningstar (Terrine) to join local notables like Tre Wilcox, Blaine Staniford (Grace), Sharon Van Meter (3015 Trinity Groves) and Brian Luscher (The Grape, Luscher’s Red Hots) in crafting bites to pair with wines. It returns to the beautiful gardens of the Seanor Estate (4627 Meadowood Road) on Oct. 2, from 6:30–9:30 p.m. tickets run from $85 (online) to $150 (VIP). Learn more at DIFFADallas.org.
This weekend also welcomes a newcomer to the food stage: The inaugural Taste of the Anatole. This three-day food fest, taking place at the Hilton Anatole in the Design District, begins with Food and Wine Around the World on Oct. 2 ($85), followed on Saturday, Oct. 3 with intimate workshops and an evening Grand Tasting ($99) and finishing up with Sunday brunch ($59). The evening events will be accompanied by live music, as well as wines and spirits from the likes of Cakebread, Robert Mondavi Napa, Maker’s Mark and more. And you can even get ticket packages that include a two-night stay at the hotel, and each night includes an after-party at SER. For more information, visit TasteOfTheAnatole.com.
The next big event is the annual Chefs for Farmers, which is bigger than ever. This three-day culinary event, which runs from Oct. 23–25, includes a Guest Chef Dinner Oct. 23 at host-chef Matt McCallister’s FT33 in the Design District, The Butcher Block Party outside the Joule Hotel on Oct. 24 (featuring 15 local chefs and bartenders) and on Oct. 25, the main event Culinary Village at Lee Park. For tickets and a full list of participants, visit ChefsForFarmers.com.
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition October 2, 2015.
Tarrant County kicked off Pride week on Wednesday, Sept. 30 when Mayor Betsy Price cut a ribbon at Trinity Park in Fort Worth.
Michelle Coronado introduced grand marshals, honorary grand marshals and Reina Lea Community Service Award nominees. Following the presentation and ribbon cutting, attendees went on a bike ride along the Trinity Trails, which follow the Trinity River and its tributaries throughout Fort Worth.
Grand marshals are Terry Covington of TGRA, the Rev. Curtis Smith of Trinity MCC and QCinema COO Kathryn Omarkhail.
Honorary grand marshals are P-FLAG Fort Worth and First Jefferson Unitarian Universalist Church.
Pride Banner Honorees who will lead the parade are David Apolonio Hernandez and Joshua Adam Rogers and their parents.
The Reina Lee Community Service Award nominees are Ben Smith from Texas Gay Rodeo Association, Trinity River Bears, Cowtown Leathermen, Dallas Bears and Fort Worth and Dallas Court systems, Miss Gay Texas 2013 Madison Deveroux who has raised money for the Greg Dollgener Memorial AIDS Fund, AIDS Outreach Center and more and me, Dallas Voice writer David Taffet.
Every morning when I get up, as I wait for my turn in the shower, I log on to Facebook to check in with my “friends” and see what’s trending in the world of social media.
And every morning in my timeline, there’s a post from my friend — on Facebook and, for many, many years, in real life — Betty Neal. Betty always posts something inspiring and uplifting. Even she is herself going through trying times, such as the recent death of her brother from cancer, Betty offers something positive to start the day.
And when you “like” the post, or comment on it, Betty comes back right away to say hello.
“Good morning Tammye Nash.”
“Good morning Betty Neal.”
So even though I rarely see Betty in person these days, I “talk” to her every day. And I was glad to hear that someone who always brightens my day is being recognized this weekend for her years of hard work and contributions to Dallas’ LGBT and same-gender-loving communities.
During Dallas Southern Pride weekend — Dallas’ black Pride celebration — Betty will be presented with the B/HAP Tommie Ross Pioneer Award in recognition of her “longstanding presence, her grace, her poise and her many accomplishments within both the pageant and the house/ball communities.”
“B/HAP” stands for Ball/House And Pageant communities. The award is named in honor of pioneering and iconic entertainer, and Pageant Hall of Famer, Tommie Ross. The award “recognizes and honors an individual whose work, art and achievements have demonstrated a legacy of passion, commitment, grace, style and transcendence within the pageant community.”
Betty Neal, who helped originate Dallas’ black Pride celebration back in the 1990s and who is a long-time volunteer with the Alan Ross Texas Freedom Parade, will receive the award Saturday, Oct. 3, during the B/HAP Awards Ceremony, starting at 3:30 p.m. at the Crowne Plaza Hotel Dallas – Market Center. The awards ceremony is part of the Southern Regional B/HAP Communities Health Disparities and Leadership Conference, being held in conjunction with Dallas Southern Pride.
In a statement on Facebook, Betty said she is “humbled to be receiving this prestigious award from the Ballroom/House And Pageant system, and to have been nominated by the legendary Tommie Ross herself. I am a huge fan and friend. What an honor! Thank you all from the depths of my heart.”
I just want to say congratulations Betty. You deserve this recognition and more. And I am proud to call you my friend.