Ask Howard

Posted on 18 Jan 2013 at 9:30am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor Dear Howard, I’m in a long-distance relationship with a great guy, but I recently met someone online who flirts with me, and I’m wondering: Am I cheating on my relationship with my boyfriend? Thanks. — Aaron Dear Aaron, Saint Howard is always [...]

Tex’n the City: Doomsday

Posted on 28 Dec 2012 at 9:35am

Our final installment of of Brandon James Singleton’s Tex’n the City.

Tex’n the City: Epilogue

Posted on 27 Dec 2012 at 9:35am

In late September, we launched an online series called Tex’n the City, where former Dallasite Brandon James Singleton chronicled the months leading up to his 30th birthday as a transplant to Southern California. Rarely did what he think he wanted — or had — turn out to be what he imagined. Here’s his post-script to the first 30 years

Tex’n the City: Item No. 10 — Rounding the corner

Posted on 10 Dec 2012 at 12:54pm

Then he brought up Tex’n the City. “”If you hadn’t this, how do you think you’d feel now?” That was easier: “Miserable.”

Ask Howard

Posted on 07 Dec 2012 at 9:30am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor Dear Howard, My best bud and I are planning a motorcycle trip through southern Europe this spring. Any chance you could direct us toward some countries where we’d most likely find the biggest concentration of, ahem, impressive attractions to enjoy? I trust this [...]

TEX’N THE CITY: Item No. 9 — BFF

Posted on 04 Dec 2012 at 11:29am

I met my best friend almost seven years ago in New York City through a mutual associate and it’s been everything, even dealing with a jealous mutual “friend” who’s tried several times to turn us against each other. Fortunately, we always trusted each other more. But a month ago, I almost lost him

Ask Howard

Posted on 02 Nov 2012 at 10:45am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor Dear Howard, I don’t believe in sex addiction, but I think I’m overly fond of having sex. Does this make any sense? I’m 36, and somehow more sex-crazed now than when I was even 16. Trawling for quickies is the driving force [...]

Tex’n the City: Item No. 5 — Find a boyfriend (potential future husband)

Posted on 29 Oct 2012 at 1:12pm

But you know what else really sucks? Being single. Especially when you finally feel like you’re mentally and emotionally more ready than you’ve ever been to handle a true mature relationship.

Tex’n the City: Item No. 4 — Good social circle

Posted on 22 Oct 2012 at 9:57am

Brandon James Singleton continues his quest to complete his to-do list before turning 30. This week: Ya gotta have friends. I’ve been recently doing a little house cleaning. On Facebook, that is. It was time. It was just getting out of control. The status updates used to be so funny, uplifting, with a dash of [...]

Tex’n the City: Item No. 3 — Hot bod

Posted on 15 Oct 2012 at 9:54am

So, there’s clearly something in the water in good ol’ Cali. It’s like everyone has a perfect gym-body. I mean, what happened to the days when people used to go to the gym, hang out on the treadmill for to minutes, make a few rounds while pretending the machine you want to use is taken and instead of drinking the little plastic cone of water at the cooler, you toss it in your face to give off the appearance of sweat — you know, after pumping all that iron — then hitting up the local Dunkin Donuts conveniently four blocks away, afterwards, as a good workout treat.