Ask Howard

Posted on 27 Jul 2012 at 8:00am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor Dear Howard, My Grindr profile features my body shot, but no face. Someone else (also without a face pic) started flirting with me. We exchanged some private images; then, he sent me his face. My God, Howard, it’s my boss! I don’t [...]

Wham, bam, thank-you hand

Posted on 06 Dec 2007 at 8:06pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Orgasms make me sick Dear Jen, I’m a 20 year-old lesbian who hasn’t done anything sexual with another person yet. I get turned on easily, and I masturbate all the time. My problem is: I can’t keep going after I come even though I’d love to. During the build-up, [...]

Horny hearts

Posted on 13 Sep 2007 at 6:33pm

Girls spew? Who knew?

Posted on 30 Aug 2007 at 6:53pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Squirting newbies and hot losers Dear Jen, I saw a “women who squirt” porn with my girlfriend, and I could not believe my eyes. How come I’ve never heard of this until now? Better yet, how come we don’t learn about this in sex ed? Disconnected From My Vagina [...]

Hot for twink

Posted on 14 Jun 2007 at 3:25pm

By Jen Sincero Dirty old men and booty gone bad Dear Jen, I’m not attracted to men my age. The younger men I dig only want platonic relationships with me. Because my friends know I’m lonely, they suggest that I “become attracted to” men in my own age bracket. How do you that? Either he [...]

Girl meat

Posted on 08 Feb 2007 at 8:54pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Hey, newbie lesbian. Are you another ingredient in her sexy-lady stew? Better order up a serving of emotional therapy for dessert Dear Jen, I recently started dating my first woman, and I am so into her! The problem is she’s a real player. She’s been with a ton of [...]

One-track mind

Posted on 25 Jan 2007 at 5:12pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Can the cowgirl of your dreams ride a scooter instead of a horse? Dear Jen, I’m a woman who never has a girlfriend. I’m 35 and have had several relationships, but none of them ever rang true or lasted long. Usually, we were poorly matched, or the connection was [...]

Crazy, lazy and looking for nookie

Posted on 30 Oct 2006 at 3:03pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert I want a girlfriend, and I want her now! Dear Jen, I’m a 32-year-old lesbian, and I’ve been single for most of my life. I really want to meet someone, but I can’t stand going to bars. And almost all my friends are straight. Every once in a while, [...]

Coveting thy neighbor’s sexuality

Posted on 14 Sep 2006 at 3:55pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert If drunky husband makes a pass whatever you do don’t go running to the wife Dear Jen, My boyfriend and I live in suburbia, and we’re pretty much the token gay couple in our neighborhood. We’re friends with this straight couple who are in their 50s. And whenever the [...]

Oh, brother

Posted on 07 Sep 2006 at 4:43pm

After coming out, take the time to guide siblings past bogus stereotypes Dear Candy, I recently came out to my family, and my brother is having a hard time accepting the news. Initially, he was very hurtful, and we didn’t speak for a while. But he and his wife recently started coming around allowing me [...]