Ask Howard

Posted on 24 Aug 2012 at 10:15am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor Dear Howard, I am not a sex addict. At 43, however, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m one of those rare men whose libido increases rather than diminishes with age. My favorite quote is from James Frey’s A Million [...]

Ask Howard

Posted on 27 Jul 2012 at 8:00am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor Dear Howard, My Grindr profile features my body shot, but no face. Someone else (also without a face pic) started flirting with me. We exchanged some private images; then, he sent me his face. My God, Howard, it’s my boss! I don’t [...]

Wham, bam, thank-you hand

Posted on 06 Dec 2007 at 8:06pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Orgasms make me sick Dear Jen, I’m a 20 year-old lesbian who hasn’t done anything sexual with another person yet. I get turned on easily, and I masturbate all the time. My problem is: I can’t keep going after I come even though I’d love to. During the build-up, [...]

Horny hearts

Posted on 13 Sep 2007 at 6:33pm

Girls spew? Who knew?

Posted on 30 Aug 2007 at 6:53pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Squirting newbies and hot losers Dear Jen, I saw a “women who squirt” porn with my girlfriend, and I could not believe my eyes. How come I’ve never heard of this until now? Better yet, how come we don’t learn about this in sex ed? Disconnected From My Vagina [...]

Hot for twink

Posted on 14 Jun 2007 at 3:25pm

By Jen Sincero Dirty old men and booty gone bad Dear Jen, I’m not attracted to men my age. The younger men I dig only want platonic relationships with me. Because my friends know I’m lonely, they suggest that I “become attracted to” men in my own age bracket. How do you that? Either he [...]

Girl meat

Posted on 08 Feb 2007 at 8:54pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Hey, newbie lesbian. Are you another ingredient in her sexy-lady stew? Better order up a serving of emotional therapy for dessert Dear Jen, I recently started dating my first woman, and I am so into her! The problem is she’s a real player. She’s been with a ton of [...]

One-track mind

Posted on 25 Jan 2007 at 5:12pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert Can the cowgirl of your dreams ride a scooter instead of a horse? Dear Jen, I’m a woman who never has a girlfriend. I’m 35 and have had several relationships, but none of them ever rang true or lasted long. Usually, we were poorly matched, or the connection was [...]

Crazy, lazy and looking for nookie

Posted on 30 Oct 2006 at 3:03pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert I want a girlfriend, and I want her now! Dear Jen, I’m a 32-year-old lesbian, and I’ve been single for most of my life. I really want to meet someone, but I can’t stand going to bars. And almost all my friends are straight. Every once in a while, [...]

Coveting thy neighbor’s sexuality

Posted on 14 Sep 2006 at 3:55pm

By Jen Sincero – Sex Expert If drunky husband makes a pass whatever you do don’t go running to the wife Dear Jen, My boyfriend and I live in suburbia, and we’re pretty much the token gay couple in our neighborhood. We’re friends with this straight couple who are in their 50s. And whenever the [...]