Ask Howard

Posted on 02 Nov 2012 at 10:45am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor askhoward@dallasvoice.com Dear Howard, I don’t believe in sex addiction, but I think I’m overly fond of having sex. Does this make any sense? I’m 36, and somehow more sex-crazed now than when I was even 16. Trawling for quickies is the driving force [...]

Tex’n the City: Item No. 5 — Find a boyfriend (potential future husband)

Posted on 29 Oct 2012 at 1:12pm

But you know what else really sucks? Being single. Especially when you finally feel like you’re mentally and emotionally more ready than you’ve ever been to handle a true mature relationship.

Tex’n the City: Item No. 4 — Good social circle

Posted on 22 Oct 2012 at 9:57am

Brandon James Singleton continues his quest to complete his to-do list before turning 30. This week: Ya gotta have friends. I’ve been recently doing a little house cleaning. On Facebook, that is. It was time. It was just getting out of control. The status updates used to be so funny, uplifting, with a dash of [...]

Tex’n the City: Item No. 3 — Hot bod

Posted on 15 Oct 2012 at 9:54am

So, there’s clearly something in the water in good ol’ Cali. It’s like everyone has a perfect gym-body. I mean, what happened to the days when people used to go to the gym, hang out on the treadmill for to minutes, make a few rounds while pretending the machine you want to use is taken and instead of drinking the little plastic cone of water at the cooler, you toss it in your face to give off the appearance of sweat — you know, after pumping all that iron — then hitting up the local Dunkin Donuts conveniently four blocks away, afterwards, as a good workout treat.

Ask Howard

Posted on 12 Oct 2012 at 10:45am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor askhoward@dallasvoice.com Dear Howard, I just acquired my 50th friend on Facebook, which has only taken me six weeks to do, but I feel so inadequate that I could almost scream! I know there are less fortunate people out there, who are lonely and [...]

Tex’n the City: Item No. 1 — Dream home

Posted on 01 Oct 2012 at 7:39am

Editor’s note: In the last installment of Tex’n the City, author Brandon James Singleton made up a checklist 10 goals before he hit 30, and realized he has only achieved one less than a year before the big day: A good best friend. This week, he sets his sights on a dream home, which takes [...]

Tex’n the City: The checklist

Posted on 24 Sep 2012 at 12:58pm

Editor’s note: This week we launch a new online series, Tex’n the City, by Brandon James Singleton. A combination web diary and advice column, Tex’n the City will track Singleton’s plans to get his life together as he narrows in on his 30th birthday. Enjoy!  Tex’n the City: The Checklist by Brandon James Singleton Do [...]

Ask Howard

Posted on 14 Sep 2012 at 12:00pm

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor askhoward@dallasvoice.com Dear Howard, I’m 19. My mom died two years ago and I’ve been living with friends on their sofas and such for most of this past year after Dad kicked me out. I didn’t plan on telling Dad I’m gay, but he [...]

Ask Howard

Posted on 24 Aug 2012 at 10:15am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor askhoward@dallasvoice.com Dear Howard, I am not a sex addict. At 43, however, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m one of those rare men whose libido increases rather than diminishes with age. My favorite quote is from James Frey’s A Million [...]

Ask Howard

Posted on 27 Jul 2012 at 8:00am

How to do what’s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL  | Special Contributor askhoward@dallasvoice.com Dear Howard, My Grindr profile features my body shot, but no face. Someone else (also without a face pic) started flirting with me. We exchanged some private images; then, he sent me his face. My God, Howard, it’s my boss! I don’t [...]