Ask Howard • 06.24.16

Posted on 24 Jun 2016 at 7:20am

It seems everyone now suddenly, this summer, has “vacation” on their minds, and along with all those tan, frolicking queers in turquoise Spandex beach thongs comes, of course, good old summertime-sizzling XXX fantasies of faraway, exotic, one-night-stand strangers whom one never has to ever see or fuck twice, again: Let’s get right to it. Dear […]

Cassie Nova • 06.10.16

Posted on 10 Jun 2016 at 7:25am

Being single isn’t a disability — it’s a choice for the choosy Hello, my lovelies. I hope you all are having an incredible day. You know, families are funny things. If you are lucky, they are who you run to when things get overwhelming or chaotic. But for many in the gay community, we tend […]

Girl on Girls • 06.03.16

Posted on 03 Jun 2016 at 7:30am

Jenny Block tackles insecurity: How your doubts can tank a relationship Thinking there’s trouble in paradise can actually cause trouble in paradise. It starts out innocently enough. That’s what makes it so insidious — its subtlety. You ask your partner, “Is everything OK?” even when there’s nothing other than your own insecurity causing you to ask. […]

Cassie Nova • 05.27.16

Posted on 27 May 2016 at 6:15am

What makes you happy? Cassie knows … and you should, too Hello, nurse! I woke up this morning in a wonderful mood (hey — 11 a.m. is still morning). The sun is shining, the birds are singing and my house is mostly clean. These are things that put me in a good mood. I am […]

Cassie Nova • 05.13.16

Posted on 13 May 2016 at 7:25am

Cassie weighs in on sero-discordant relationships in the age of PrEP Well, Donald Trump will probably be the Republican “chosen one” to run for president. That is all the proof I need — it is the end of days. If you listen closely, you can hear the hooved symphony of the four horsemen ushering in […]

Girl on Girls • 05.06.16

Posted on 06 May 2016 at 7:20am

Jenny Block gets off on May: It’s National Masturbation Month! Editor’s note: May is National Masturbation Month. You can probably imagine what the best way to celebrate is. If you’re a guy, you likely don’t need a special month to remind you how great and important — and necessary! — masturbation is. But if you’re […]

Cassie Nova • 04.29.16

Posted on 29 Apr 2016 at 7:20am

When he violates your trust, can he ever win it back? Well, it depends … Hello, my people. I hope you are all doin’ your own thang, keepin’ it real or keeping it 100 or any other hip, trendy things the kids are saying these days. I for one am exhausted, but so excited that […]

Ask Howard • 04.22.16

Posted on 22 Apr 2016 at 7:20am

How to do the wrong thing right Dear Howard, My new man is a Virgo bear, I’m a Pisces cub. We’ve only dated two months, but he’s asked me move in already, and is even hinting at marriage the day I pass my GED. I probably do love him, I guess, but here’s the rub: […]

Cassie Nova • 04.15.16

Posted on 15 Apr 2016 at 7:20am

Allergies won’t stop Cassie from answering your questions! Holla, hookers! Allergies are the work of the devil. After being sick all week — convinced I had the worst cold in history and I was dying — I broke down and went to the doctor. “It’s just allergies,” the doc said. “It’s from the unusually high […]

Girl on Girls • 04.08.16

Posted on 08 Apr 2016 at 7:20am

Jenny Block explores: Is dating an older woman such a bad thing? My last three girlfriends were all 11 to 17 years my junior. I was with one of them for eight years. Dated the other two for a year apiece. At the time it worked for me, for us. But I always wondered why […]