Defining moments

Posted on 17 Jun 2016 at 8:40am

It was 1992 and I had just moved to Dallas from a small college town in Florida. HIV/AIDS was a growing issue in my experience, but it had already taken many people in Dallas, including leaders in our LGBT community. I was too young to understand the power of the Stonewall Riots in 1969, so […]

Standing strong against the haters

Posted on 10 Jun 2016 at 7:50am

Transgender couple put a human face on the debate over inclusive EEOC polices in Mesquite On Monday night, June 6, my wife, Ashley Boucher, and I braved Metroplex evening traffic to make it from Grand Prairie to Mesquite for the Mesquite City Council meeting. The council was set to vote on adding sexual orientation and […]

Enlightenment, enschlightenment

Posted on 03 Jun 2016 at 8:10am

Democrats have to focus on the threat of Trump to beat him   When you look at the election rationally, it is impossible for a candidate who has no political experience, is a serial philanderer, has bankrupted several companies, has a fourth-grade vocabulary and has a history of shady business practices to even make it […]

The shocking truth about HRC

Posted on 27 May 2016 at 7:40am

The Human Rights Campaign represents a force of more than 1.5 million members and supporters nationwide. As the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender civil rights organization, HRC says it envisions a world where LGBT people are ensured of their basic equal rights, and can be open, honest and safe at home, at work […]

“Bro jobs” and what it means to be gay

Posted on 20 May 2016 at 8:10am

Arecent article talking about the “bro job” — a sex act between heterosexual men — has me questioning the whole sexuality alphabet soup we live in. LGBTQAAI (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, asexual, allies, intersex), etc., seems to be getting a bit awkward, and perhaps someday soon we will just refer to people as “people.” […]

Face the facts: Transgender people aren’t the ones to fear

Posted on 13 May 2016 at 7:45am

I’m tempted to characterize those who joined Texas Lt. Gov. Dan Patrick in opposition to the guidelines for transgender students during the Fort Worth Independent School District’s May 10 board meeting as an angry mob, with glaring eyes, carrying pitchforks and torches — out for blood. But that wouldn’t be true. Or fair. In reality, […]

Young at heart

Posted on 06 May 2016 at 7:55am

Why we need to raise HIV/AIDS awareness among young people   I was 22 years old when I was diagnosed with HIV in 1992. I have now been living with the virus longer than I did without it. I’m grateful for being alive and healthy, but I can’t say that I’m happy to have HIV. […]

An open letter to the Texas Legislature

Posted on 29 Apr 2016 at 7:50am

(Or, ‘The Donkey in the Bathtub’)   Dear Lawmakers: What have we, as transgender people, actually done to frighten you so much? I mean, what have we actually done that is making you consider taking up precious time that should be allotted to conducting important business for the great state of Texas to instead enact […]

Bring back empathy, dignity

Posted on 22 Apr 2016 at 8:05am

As the Oak Lawn community struggles to address violence from without, we must fight hatred from within This is an article I’ve been meaning to write for some time. I sat for weeks mulling over exactly what I wanted to say and how I wanted to say it. The fact is, there are so many […]

Telling ugly lies to hide a simple truth

Posted on 22 Apr 2016 at 8:00am

The easiest sale on any political issue is to frame it as critical to the safety of children, and that could become key to a civil liberties battle brewing nationwide that pivots on transgender equality. It’s a discussion that most Americans simply can’t understand because they have never met a transgender individual. They misunderstand the […]