Resource Center Dallas calls out Dwaine Caraway for anti-LGBT lyrics in latest anti-sagging song

Dwaine Caraway

Last week we told you that Dallas City Councilman Dwaine Caraway had unveiled yet another rap song containing homophobic lyrics to promote his anti-sagging-pants campaign. In response to our post, Resource Center Dallas’ Cece Cox sent a letter to Caraway on Monday, calling for him and other city leaders to repudiate the song’s anti-LGBT message.

“It was with great dismay that I read a blog post last week from the Dallas Voice about your renewed campaign to discourage men from wearing saggy pants,” Cox writes. “For the second time in five years, the campaign is using a rap song featuring anti-LGBT lyrics to promote this campaign. According to the Voice, five years ago the lyrics to the song were modified to remove the anti-LGBT content, so I was highly surprised to see them return and be expanded on in the re-launched campaign.

“The Center shares common ground with you on the sagging pants issue; in fact, we agree that dressing without one’s underwear showing is a good idea,” Cox writes. “Our concern is the approach to the campaign and the lyrics to the song. Calling someone on the ‘down low,’ meaning men having sex with men (MSM) and stating it as a put-down, helps promote fear, shame and discrimination against men who are gay or bisexual or are perceived to be gay or bisexual.”

CC’d on Cox’s letter to Caraway are Mayor Mike Rawlings and all of the other council members. For the record, Caraway’s assistant, Sloan Anderson, hasn’t returned our phone calls seeking comment about the song. Cox’s full letter follows after the jump.

—  John Wright

Dallas wraps up June Pride series

The panel, from left: Roger Poindexter, Lorie Burch, Scott Whittall, the Rev. Dawson Taylor, Harold Steward, Cece Cox, Pastor Jon Haack and David Fisher. (John Wright/Dallas Voice)

The city of Dallas wrapped up its LGBT Pride Month celebration Wednesday with a discussion of how the LGBT community has enriched the city.

A seven-member panel moderated by Fahari Arts Institute founder Harold Steward discussed the contributions their LGBT organizations have made to Dallas over the years and where they envision Dallas in the future. They then took questions from the handful of people in attendance.

The event in the City Hall Flag Room was the last event in the city’s Pride series “Honor, Educate and Celebrate.”

Panelists included Resource Center Dallas CEO and Executive Director Cece Cox, Cedar Springs Merchants Association Executive Director Scott Whittall, Turtle Creek Chorale Executive Director David Fisher, GBLT Chamber of Commerce board member Lorie Burch, Lambda Legal South Central Region Executive Director Roger Poindexter, Cathedral of Hope Executive Minister the Rev. Dawson Taylor and Promise Metropolitan Community Church senior Pastor Jon Haack.

City Council was in executive session so members could not attend, but Councilwoman Delia Jasso stepped out to speak briefly about her pride in the LGBT Task Force for planning great events over the last four weeks. Councilman Scott Griggs also stopped by the Flag Room and spoke briefly. The series began with a kickoff followed by conversations about city services and out officials. Jasso expressed a desire to have another celebration next June and promised it would be “bigger and better.”

While many of the organizations began as a way of welcoming the LGBT community with safe havens to worship, gain access to HIV/AIDS care and enjoy a safe evening out or unbiased legal council, the panel focused on how far Dallas has grown over the decades and how spread out the LGBT community has become. The days have passed where members of the LGBT community only live near Cedar Springs and the only bar patrons along the entertainment strip are gay.

Instead, the LGBT community and its businesses have integrated into Dallas while still maintaining a focus on their original customers, Whittall said. Even religious organizations have grown in attendance with allies who no longer find a barrier between spirituality and sexuality, but Taylor added that the next step is working from being a community that is tolerated to one that is accepted and celebrated.

Task Force member Pam Gerber closed the event by expressing how proud she was to have a June Pride celebration and welcomed input for next year’s events. She said that while the community is working toward acceptance, she “just wants to be.”

“I want to be nothing extraordinary, nothing out of the ordinary,” she said. “I just want to be.”

Suggestions for next year’s Pride can be made to Councilwoman Delia Jasso at 214-670-4052.

—  Anna Waugh

Resource Center calls on DISD to pick new leader versed in LGBT issues, do more for gay parents

Cece Cox

Resource Center Dallas is calling on DISD trustees to keep LGBT issues squarely in mind as they select a new superintendent. In a letter sent to all nine school board members today, RCD Executive Director and CEO Cece Cox notes that the district recently adopted fully LGBT-inclusive anti-bullying and non-discrimination policies. But Cox adds that while the district may be ahead of most in Texas when it comes to these things, “far too often, there is a gap between policy and practice.”

“Additionally, I encourage the district to do more to reach out to LGBT couples who have children,” Cox writes. “According to the 2010 U.S. Census, there are roughly 6,700 LGB couples in Dallas County, and around one in four of them are raising children. The superintendent should lead district efforts to reach out to these LGBT families so that they are welcomed and included in DISD schools.”

As an exclamation point, Cox mentions this week’s settlement between the U.S. Department of Justice and Minnesota’s Anoka-Hennepin school district, suggesting that DISD is legally obligated to enforce the anti-bullying policy and support LGBT students.

Read Cox’s full letter after the jump.

—  John Wright

LGBT advocates take their fight to have mayor sign marriage pledge to the Dallas City Council

LGBT advocates who attended today's council meeting gather in the Flag Room afterward. They are, from left, Daniel Cates, Patti Fink, Dennis Coleman, Cece Cox, Omar Narvaez and Rafael McDonnell. (John Wright/Dallas Voice)

It’s becoming clear that Dallas’ LGBT community doesn’t plan to let Mayor Mike Rawlings off the hook over his refusal to sign a pledge in support of same-sex marriage.

Five LGBT advocates spoke during public comments at the start of today’s regular City Council meeting, calling on Rawlings to sign the pledge — and asking the City Council to formally back pro-equality state and federal legislation.

“I’m here to ask Mayor Rawlings to do something, and I’m here to ask you as council people to support him in signing the pledge for marriage equality,” said Cece Cox, executive director and CEO of Resource Center Dallas, the first of the speakers. ”This is a matter of standing for justice. Pure and simple, that’s what it’s about. ”

Cox noted that Rawlings has argued that marriage equality doesn’t fall within the mayor’s duties.

“When one stands up for justice, it requires courage,” Cox said. “It requires going outside the regular rules and the regular lines, and that’s what I’m here to ask for today.”

—  John Wright

New dental suite dedicated at Nelson Tebedo is named for Camp

Bret Camp, former associate executive director for health and medical services for Resource Center Dallas, checks out the Nelson-Tebedo Clinic’s new dental suite, named in his honor on Friday, Dec. 16.

RCD’S Executive Director and CEO Cece Cox and members of the Resource Center staff gathered at the clinic for the dedication ceremony, as did Camp, who retired last summer due to health issues. The new facility and staffing was paid for by a grant from United Way. Cox said that the added chair is expected to cut waiting time for appointments from four months to less than four weeks and increase the number of clients served by 175 people to 1,155.

Camp said he completed chemotherapy treatment recently, has been given a good prognosis and is feeling strong and healthy.

—  David Taffet

Resource Center hires Marisa Elliott as chief operating officer

Resource Center Dallas has hired Marisa Elliott to fill the newly-created position of chief operating officer effective Aug. 9, RCD officials announced today.

Elliott will be responsible for the internal, day-to-day operations of the center and will work closely with staff to strengthen existing programs and develop new opportunities, according to a statement announcing her hiring.

Elliot joins the center from the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center, where she served as the program coordinator and division manager for their psychiatry education program.

Previously, Elliott served as the interim chief executive officer and chief operating officer for the YWCA of Metropolitan Dallas; regional director of operations for American Habilitation Services, which provides support and services to individuals with developmental disabilities, and director of services for Pecan Valley Mental Health/Mental Retardation of Stephenville.

The center added the COO position following a needs assessment and restructuring initiated earlier this year. Cece Cox, formerly the executive director, assumed the additional title of CEO in April, and will have an increased focus on external relations and with the center’s board of directors.

“Marisa’s strong business background and wide variety of non-profit experience will help Resource Center Dallas grow for the future while refining and refocusing our current programs,” Cox said.

—  David Taffet

RCD receives $2 million gift from Dallas couple

Cece Cox

Eric V. Culbertson and David W. Carlson pledged $2 million to Resource Center Dallas, the second largest gift from a living donor to an LGBT organization in the United States. The money will go toward the construction of a new building in Oak Lawn.

Culbertson is a co-owner of Salon Three-Thirty in Uptown. He also recently founded Strength Through Yoga, a non-profit committed to bringing the healing aspects of yoga to organizations, including Resource Center Dallas.

Carlson, the founding chief financial officer of Grapevine-based GameStop, recently retired and is now a co-owner of Uptown Energy Fitness, a high-energy, trainer-based gym located in the West Village. GameStop has been the presenting sponsor of the Black Tie Dinner.

“This is a transformational gift that will have a great impact on thousands of people each year,” said Cece Cox, executive director and CEO of the center. “I am truly thankful for Eric and Dave’s generous investment in our work as we plan to meet the increasing needs of the communities we serve.”

“The driving force for our donation was the center’s staff,” Culbertson said. “They make [the center] what it is, working so hard and doing so much.”

“After touring all the facilities, and understanding the full scope of services, we knew that the center needed to have a new building, and very soon,” Carlson said.

RCD has a capital campaign is in progress to consolidate its three facilities into one building that would double the center’s available space. Property near Cathedral of Hope has already been acquired for the new facility.

—  David Taffet

Federal funding cuts affect Resource Center Dallas’ Insurance Assistance Program

Cece Cox

Because of decreased funding from the federal government, Resource Center Dallas is making cuts to its Insurance Assistance Program effective Aug. 1.

The program helps people with HIV who have lost their jobs but still have insurance to maintain that coverage and covers co-pays for HIV medications.

As of Aug. 1, assistance with co-pays will be discontinued. In its letter to affected clients, the organization sent information to help them maintain their medical regimen.

Eligibility for insurance premium coverage will also tighten. Clients will have to verify information quarterly. Gross rather than adjusted gross income will be used to qualify for the program.

Money was cut in the current fiscal year but how these cuts are affecting individual programs is just becoming apparent. In the current budget cutting climate, more cuts could come for the next fiscal year.

“Anybody providing social services is getting hit,” said Cece Cox, executive director and CEO of Resource Center Dallas. “The people who need help most will get hurt the most.”

—  David Taffet

AIDS at 30: HIV isn’t someone else’s problem

By CECE COX

In reflecting on the past 30 years since HIV and AIDS entered our vocabulary, it seems that the more things change, the more they stay the same.

Thirty years ago, an HIV infection was often followed with serious illnesses and, in many cases, swift death. Today, medications and greater awareness and understanding of HIV/AIDS result in better quality and longer lives — at least, for those who know their status and have access to those medications and medical care.

However, much of the misunderstanding and stigma associated with HIV has not changed.

Early in the pandemic, the predecessors of Resource Center Dallas took legal action so that persons with HIV could receive care at the public county hospital, which was denying life-saving treatment for pneumocystis pneumonia, an opportunistic infection and leading killer of those who had HIV. Stigma and fear created bias and prejudice toward those needing care — primarily gay men — at that time.

Regretfully, fear, stigma and ignorance remain rampant today. We must speak frankly about a disease whose cause is now known and whose progression can be controlled. Many in the GLBT community have lost dozens of friends to the disease, yet 65 percent of new infections in Dallas County are among men who have sex with men.

As a community, what are we doing to stem the tide of new infections? How are we taking care of one another?

AIDS activist Larry Kramer was eviscerated in the 1990s when he screamed that the LGBT community must take responsibility for its own health and change unsafe sexual behavior. Wasn’t he right?

We now know HIV cannot be transmitted by a mosquito, a hug, a drinking glass or from a cough. We know it is transmitted by direct contact with infected blood, semen, vaginal fluids or breast milk.

We can talk safe sex, but preventing HIV is not that simple. We also must create an environment where people who are at risk of engaging in unsafe sexual behavior have alternatives. Many factors play into decisions that lead to unsafe sex: lack of knowledge, low self-esteem, drug use, fatigue from worrying about HIV, inability to afford condoms and — again — fear and stigma that scare us away from talking about sex and HIV.

Resource Center Dallas is one of many organizations committed to addressing these issues. We provide mental health counseling so that those dealing with self-esteem, fear, depression or other concerns can receive support, regardless of their HIV status.

Additionally, we offer some of the leading HIV prevention programs in Texas targeting those at the greatest risk: FUSE, U-BE and C3 — programs that empower participants to make better decisions and take responsibility for their behavior.

And, as a leading LGBT community center, we provide community and a safe place to gather and get involved in programs, events and volunteer opportunities.

We all have a role: Let’s talk honestly about health and sex, to our partners, friends and children.

HIV is not someone else’s problem. As community, let’s act up to end HIV infections.

Cece Cox is executive director and CEO of Resource Center Dallas.

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DONATION

LEAGUE AT AT&T GIVES TO RCD | Representatives of Dallas-based AT&T present a check for $5,000 to Resource Center Dallas in support of the center’s programs and services. Pictured are, from left, John Cramer, national public affairs director for LEAGUE at AT&T; Angela Ross, AT&T external affairs director; Theresa Bates-McLemore, national LEAGUE president; Jennifer Hurn, client services manager for Resource Center Dallas; and Cece Cox, executive director and chief executive officer of Resource Center Dallas.

—  John Wright