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Comedian/drag queen P.T. may look like Wendy Williams, but his message to queer youth is no gimmick

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HOW YOU DOIN’? | P.T.’s spot-on impersonation of talk show host Wendy Williams got producers’ attention and could be a step toward the comedian’s dreams.

 

RICH LOPEZ  | Staff Writer
lopez@dallasvoice.com

Dallas drag queen P.T. has his sights set on one thing: The Wendy Williams Show. He has a good reason: His spot-on take on the talk show celeb was so successful, Williams’ own TV show took notice, asking him to produce a video of his work as her doing celebrity news. Now, he’s vying to be the first female impersonator on her show.

“That is my goal,” he says. “She’s had gay people on her show, but no drag.

I would love to be the first to sit with her for ‘Hot Topics.’”

P.T. just turned 50, but that doesn’t hold him back from big ambitions.

He’s worked the talk show circuit before, appearing on Maury Povich. His video made it to Williams’ producers, though was not selected. Still, he hopes to use this exposure as a springboard to get his message out.

“I’d love to do radio one day and report celebrity news,” he says. “I could still do it here in Dallas, but if the money and time are right, I’d move as well. I’d love to, even.”

People can see P.T. in action Thursday and Sunday nights at Havana. He’s been the headlining entertainment there for seven years with his sass intact. He threatens to read a queen if they get out of line during his show, but mostly, his act is sort of the Oprah of drag: When people walk out that door, he wants them to feel better inside and leave a bit more educated.

“My job is not to put someone down, but to make them feel good,” he says.

“I use my comedy for that as well as to encourage people to do unto others. I believe in that. And I will try to teach where I can. Every chance I get. So many younger folks just don’t know what gay Pride is about.”

If P.T. has one thing to say, it’s to know your history. And when it comes to Pride, he finds that much is getting lost as younger generations develop into the community. He won’t separate gay Pride from black Pride — which kicks off this weekend in Dallas — because to him it’s all the same: A struggle to be better.

“To see where we come from is to see how our rights developed,” he says.

“Kids don’t know where this Pride came from. Just because we have parties and parades, there’s a reason why I can be a drag queen or why [same-sex couples] can hold hands in public. There’s something to be grateful for.”

He knows Pride will always have the parties to go with it, but the spectacle of celebration, in his eyes, can’t overshadow the mere reason for Pride.

There’s history there, and P.T. wants to talk about it.

“I think it’s sad that some don’t know what Stonewall is,” he bemoans.

“When I went to New York, the first place I wanted to go was the Stonewall Inn — I needed to see that for myself. You only get what you fight for and you only fight for what you know about. We’re all in it for the same thing and we know it’s not gonna come to us easily.”

P.T. expounds on the history of black Pride in Dallas, crediting Ray Dyer as starting the celebration at the old club The Metro, now Club Elm and Pearl Street. This is also where the then-Lady P.T. started his work in Dallas, coming from Austin.

Initially, The Metro wasn’t a hotspot for drag, so he performed more as a host and entertainer, starting in 1994. That changed as Dyer saw the importance of it as well as the revenue it could bring. Lady P.T. was back on track, but it wasn’t until 2001 that he officially incorporated stand-up into his act — in and out of drag. He put in time at the Improv to hone his new skill, but it was also a sort of therapy.

“I had a tragic incident that made me look at life different,” he admits.

He doesn’t go into details over what changed his life so much. But that incident redefined his outlook on life. For P.T., he knows tomorrow doesn’t show up for everyone.

“If I did not have that wake up call, I wouldn’t be reaching for myself,” he says. “I see some gray hairs but life doesn’t feel different. This is the only time I get to do what I wanna do.”

He’s living proof of that. Fifty is a milestone birthday, but P.T. proves that no age is too old to still aim high. Only now, he has the wisdom to be patient.

“It took me about four years trying to get Wendy’s attention and she finally acknowledged me,” he says. “That told me not to give up.  Everybody deserves a chance.”

This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition September 30, 2011.

—  Kevin Thomas

Yip, Yip, hooray!

TV designer Vern Yip has a new house plan: Being dad to 2 kids

STICKY FINGERS | Having children has helped Yip embrace the value of chaos — something he never did on ‘Trading Spaces.’

ARNOLD WAYNE JONES  | Life+Style Editor
jones@dallasvoice.com

It’s a rainy late spring day, and Vern Yip is late for his personal appearance in North Dallas. It’s the kind of thing that — as anyone who has watched Yip over the years on home-improvement shows like Trading Spaces, Deserving Design and Design Star can attest — probably drives the persnickety, precise man insane.

Of course, that attention to detail is also what has made him one of the most popular and respected people in a reality TV industry that often values flash over substance.

Still, with the new season of Design Star about to begin airing, Yip is as enthusiastic as his collected demeanor will allow.

“We’re back in New York again,” Yip says of the upcoming season. “It’s a really, really good season. We walked into my favorite room ever in the history of the series. It’s a very tight competition.”

High praise coming from Yip, a direct and constructively critical judge who does not suffer fools gladly and which can sometime come off as curt. Well, only if you aren’t any good.

“I think I’m very fair,” he says with a touch of defiance.  (At least one contestant from this season — Dallas’ Leslie Ezelle — agrees; see story on Page 34.) “For me, the person who wins this gets their own TV show! That is a huge deal.” And he wants to make sure the prize is deserved.

“We release you into people’s homes. When you design someone’s house, you’re dealing with the biggest investment they will make in their lifetime. I want to make sure you are fully capable of executing your concept.”

So what about clients who have horrible ideas and want you to make them happen? In true Type A personality mode, he says judgment must trump emotion.

“The homeowners are not designers. It up to you as the designer to get to the core, the essence of what they want,” he advises. (Interior designers, he explains, have to pass rigorous testing; those without such certification can only call themselves “decorators.”)

He is not afraid to hold others to his high standards.

“Back on Trading Spaces, if you were on my team, I was a task-master,” admits the compact, handsome and surprisingly energetic designer — though that last title hardly gives him adequate credit. Yip is a licensed interior designer and a practicing architect in addition to his hosting/judging duties on several HGTV series and his extensive charitable work and designing a line of products for I.O. Metro, a retail store with a branch on Alpha Road in North Dallas. And then there’s his latest job description: Dad.

Yip and his partner Craig Koch have two children through surrogacy — the most recent born just a few months before our interview.

“I’ve never been away from my daughter before,” Yip says upon his trip to Dallas. “I’ve always wanted children, to be a dad. It’s an integral part of the human experience. But it’s a balance of the personal and professional lives.”

And the new family is putting all his skills to the test: He’s in the process of putting a 2,400-square-foot addition to his own house.

Wait a sec: How does the notoriously fussy perfectionist with the exacting, geometric style adjust to the chaos that is a house filled with sticky-fingered babies?

“It has already made me a better designer,” Yip says. “Being a dad has made me more aware and loosened me up a little, which I like. I am very O.C.D. Kids make that impossible. You manage the chaos. It’s not like I like having toys everywhere, but it has allowed me to appreciate imperfection.”

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YIP’S TIPS: 10 SIMPLE  DECORATING IDEAS

Not everyone can afford a designer — or get on an HGTV show. For the rest of us, Vern Yip offers these suggestions for making your space work for you.

Make your space a reflection of you and your personality; go eclectic! Design no longer has to be relegated to one style for an entire house or even an entire room. Your home should be a reflection of you and a manifestation of your unique personality. Since people are multi-dimensional, your home should be too.

Invest in quality items that will endure. Your home is not a set for a photo shoot or a place that should be off limits; it should be a special atmosphere designed to support the most important moments in your life shared with your family and friends. Invest in quality that will endure. Quality does not equate with price: Just because something is expensive doesn’t mean that it is of high quality. Likewise, just because something is inexpensive doesn’t mean that it is of poor quality. Great quality items at accessible price points can be found in the right places.

Pepper your space with unique pieces! Although the majority of your home will have high quality furniture that will likely be found in other homes across America, or even your neighborhood, look for a handful of furniture pieces that have a unique, hand-crafted quality that really sing to you. Items that have character and show the heart and soul someone put into making them often are wonderful conversation starters.

Don’t be afraid of big and bold. Scale is important in the overall scheme of a room design, so embrace a few bigger items that really can make a statement. Appropriately used, scale makes a room feel balanced and complete. If you fill a room with pieces that are all of the same scale, nothing will pop and the result will be bland and boring. Take a cue from Mother Nature who juxtaposes large trees next to small bushes. It will help make your room feel comfortable to be in.

Use color to stimulate and excite! Color is a powerful design tool and mixing in doses of color into a room can be an easy and fun way to update a space and make it feel like a real reflection of you. Paint is a wonderful way to inject color into your home, but don’t forget throw pillows, throws, rugs and curtains — all phenomenal, easy and often inexpensive ways to liven a room.

Mixing wood tones enriches a space. Many people feel that all of the wood tones in a room have to match; it simply isn’t true. Mixing woods in a singular space can make it feel rich, sophisticated and unique. It is true that sticking to general wood color areas helps pull a room together, so be cautious about mixing woods with tonally unrelated backgrounds (for example, cherry-red undertone doesn’t necessarily look great with maple-yellow). If you look at wood carefully, you will see all kinds of colors in the graining and background.

Invest in open and closed storage. You can never have enough storage! Storage keeps your home looking pulled together and functioning while life happens. Open storage pieces, like bookshelves and consoles, are wonderful for displaying objects and as designated surfaces for decorative pieces that make a home feel warm. A room full of open storage, however, doesn’t function very well because there is no place for the visual pollution to go. That’s where closed storage pieces come in: buffets, end tables with doors and trunks offer easy places to tuck away messier items that don’t necessarily deserve displaying.

Rugs and curtains finish a room! Rugs act as warm, grounding forces in a room while curtains finish off the vertical space flanking windows, adding needed visual comfort. Select your rug and your curtains before selecting your paint to ensure that your room comes together perfectly. The chances of finding a rug and curtains to work perfectly with a predetermined paint color are much worse than starting with a rug and curtains and selecting from the endless array of paint colors that are available. You can customize paint to curtains or a rug but not the other way around.

Every room should have touches of white and black. White is the reflection of all color and black is the absorption of all color, making these two colors the ultimate in neutrals. White and black will literally go with anything. Touches of white in a space will catch the eye and act as a highlight while bits of black will recede and add depth. Adding a little of each to every room through furniture, accessories, textile items and artwork.

Include all kinds of lighting. Recessed cans are great for providing overall illumination in a room, but they won’t complete a room on their own. Table and floor lamps are an important source of warmth and function that inject light at levels that recessed lights can not. Additionally, pendant lights are not only critical sources of light but also offer a chance to hang a floating piece of art.

This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition July 1, 2011.

—  Michael Stephens

GvB premieres new song from Hunx and his Punx

Thanks to the peeps over at the Gorilla vs. Bear site for offering up some queer music for the day. How about some Hunx and His Punx for your listening pleasure? Gorilla vs. Bear posted “Lovers Lane” today from the band’s upcoming album Too Young To Be In Love. So far, I can’t stop listening to it. Its uber-gay tune is beautifully nostalgic in that K-Tel kinda way.

The band is also in the process of creating its own TV show, which sounds like a hot mess and by the sound of the band’s last tweet (their feed is as entertaining as their music), they wouldn’t mind a little financial scratch to help out. Take some of your intended KERA money and help a gay out by pledging. They are  halfway to their $3,000 goal.

—  Rich Lopez