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		<title>Nobody does it Eder</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 23:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Broadway diva Linda Eder talks of her longevity &#8230; and her drag queen imitators RICH LOPEZ  &#124; Staff Writer lopez@dallasvoice.com The earliest evidence of what Linda Eder would become is available, of course, on YouTube: A video of Eder, maybe 19 or 20, singing Melissa Manchester’s “Looking Through the Eyes of Love” at the 1980 [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Broadway diva Linda Eder talks of her longevity &#8230; and her drag queen imitators</h4>
<div id="attachment_96264" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 410px"><a href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/concert-1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-96264" title="concert-1" src="http://www.dallasvoice.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/concert-1.jpg" alt="concert-1" width="400" height="600" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">CHRISTMAS ANGEL | Singer Linda Eder will bring Christmas magic to her holiday concert at the Winspear and she’s hoping her gay fans will turn out. Being a Broadway diva with that voice — they likely will.</p></div>
<p><strong>RICH LOPEZ  | Staff Writer</strong><br />
<a href="mailto:lopez@dallasvoice.com" target="_blank"><strong>lopez@dallasvoice.com</strong></a></p>
<p>The earliest evidence of what Linda Eder would become is available, of course, on YouTube: A video of Eder, maybe 19 or 20, singing Melissa Manchester’s “Looking Through the Eyes of Love” at the 1980 Miss Minnesota pageant. (She didn’t win the title.)</p>
<p>But Eder doesn’t blanch with embarrassment when confronted with this relic of her past. Now a responsible adult, she offers <em>that</em> Linda Eder career advice.</p>
<p>“There’s a whole list of things I’d tell her not to do,” she insists. “My advice would be to save more money. Don’t spend so much because you don’t really need so much.”</p>
<p>Eder turned 50 this year, and the wisdom earned from the passage of time is clear in her tone. She’s relaxed, professional and unfazed discussing the range of her career, whether working with her ex-husband on her last album <em>Now</em> or the drag queens that perform her work. But she does seem to get jazzed about one thing — longevity.</p>
<p>“What makes me proud of this album is just the fact I am here at 50 and making records,” she says. “I’ve been most fortunate to have this kind of career and I have a real sense of accomplishment with this album.”</p>
<p><em>Now</em>, her 13th that dropped in February, reunited her with longtime collaborate Frank Wildhorn, the man behind <em>Jekyll and Hyde</em> — the musical that put Eder on the Broadway map. But Wildhorn is also Eder’s ex-husband (they divorced in 2004). Still, she describes the experience as drama-free.</p>
<p>“You know, it worked out fine and it really was easy. We stay in contact,” she says. “For this album, we brought back some of the same people from before.</p>
<p>Things were slightly different now that I’m my own entity if you will. There was a little more freedom but it wasn’t he ever made me do anything I didn’t want.”<br />
After 20 years since her first release, Eder knows she’s not radio fodder, but she also knows her audience.</p>
<p>“I certainly hoped for this kind of career. Making records is fun,” she says.</p>
<p>“Fortunately people enjoy my voice.”</p>
<p>That, of course, includes her large contingent of gay fans. She understands the territory that comes with being a Broadway diva. Eder even relishes it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Screen-shot-2011-12-08-at-4.48.43-PM.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-96265" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 6px;" title="Screen shot 2011-12-08 at 4.48.43 PM" src="http://www.dallasvoice.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Screen-shot-2011-12-08-at-4.48.43-PM.png" alt="" width="274" height="138" /></a>“I’ve been pretty lucky to have gay fans. They are my more lively audience and that’s why I love playing for them. I appreciate it so much,” she gushes.<br />
Drag queens aren’t lost on her, either.</p>
<p>“Do you know that there is this drag show called Better than Eder? That’s so great,” she says.</p>
<p>She’ll likely introduce some of her new works when she returns to Dallas Sunday for her holiday concert at the Winspear. Eder helps ring in the season with <em>The Linda Eder Holiday Show</em>. <em>Her Christmas Stays the Same</em> CD from 2000 featured both original and traditional carols with that Eder touch; getting the chance to perform them on stage is what drives her at this time of year.</p>
<p>“You know, I’m an entertainer and doing these shows with talented people and musicians is just a fun hang,” she says. “It’s hard to believe still that I get to do this for a business.”</p>
<p>She’ll argue the celebrity label, but knows she is one in a certain sense. Eder doesn’t propose a false modesty either when asked about her past work. Instead, she actively strives for a sense of normalcy.</p>
<p>“I don’t think of myself [as a star],” she says. “I was driven early on and carved a niche career for myself but I found that I wanted to pull back to a level of success that was normal. I’m simply a musician. I might call myself a minor celebrity.”</p>
<p>Her fans might disagree.</p>
<p><em>This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition December 9, 2011.</em></p>
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		<title>Joel Burns responds to Arkansas school board member who encouraged gays to kill themselves</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fort Worth City Councilman Joel Burns responded Tuesday night to Clint McCance, the Arkansas school board member who went on an anti-gay tirade last week in which he basically encouraged LGBT people to kill themselves. The openly gay Burns, whose &#8220;It Gets Better&#8221; video message to LGBT youth has more than 2 million views, posted [...]]]></description>
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<p>Fort Worth City Councilman Joel Burns responded Tuesday night to Clint McCance, the Arkansas school board member who went on an anti-gay tirade last week in which he basically encouraged LGBT people to kill themselves. The openly gay Burns, whose <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ax96cghOnY4"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>&#8220;It Gets Better&#8221; video message</strong></span></a> to LGBT youth has more than 2 million views, posted the following note on his Facebook page:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #666699;">&#8220;Hate  and violence born of ignorance must not be allowed to harm the  youth  of Midland, Arkansas or anywhere in America. Two weeks ago I  shared at  our Fort Worth City Council meeting that the words and  attitudes  expressed by those like Midland School Trustee Clint McCance  result in  misery and even death for America&#8217;s youth. At that council  meeting and  in the days since, I have asked people in communities across  the nation  to take responsibility and stand up to these hateful  bullies. I  encourage adults to tell our children they are whole,  perfect, and  complete. And I try to remind those bullied youth that  things will get  better and that they will make a lifetime of happy  memories. I can  assure you that changing the course of just one  potentially lost life  is worth our standing up to the bullies like Clint  McCance. Trustee  McCance is a failure as a responsible adult, an  embarrassment to the  good citizens of Midland, and he has betrayed his  community&#8217;s trust.&#8221;</span></p>
<p>McCance made his comments on his own Facebook page (screen grab above) in response to last week&#8217;s Spirit Day, when people were asked to wear purple to support LGBT youth: &#8220;Seriously they want me to wear purple because five queers killed  themselves. The only way im wearin it for them is if they all commit  suicide. I cant believe the people of this world have gotten this  stupid. We are honoring the fact that they sinned and killed thereselves  because of their sin. REALLY PEOPLE.&#8221;</p>
<p>McCance wasn&#8217;t done, either. From <a href="http://advocate.com/News/News_Features/Arkansas_School_Board_Member_Thinks_Fags_Should_Die/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>The Advocate: </strong></span></a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #666699;">Initially, six people &#8220;liked&#8221; McCance&#8217;s message. He also received  supportive comments, though some challenged his statement. A commenter  wrote, &#8220;Because hatred is always right.&#8221; That led McCance to write, &#8220;No  because being a fag doesn&#8217;t give you the right to ruin the rest of our  lives. If you get easily offended by being called a fag then dont tell  anyone you are a fag. Keep that shit to yourself. I dont care how people  decide to live their lives. They dont bother me if they keep it to  thereselves. It pisses me off though that we make a special purple fag  day for them. I like that fags cant procreate. I also enjoy the fact  that they often give each other aids and die. If you arent against it,  you might as well be for it.&#8221;</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #666699;">McCance was again challenged on his  statements — and his Christianity. Wrote one commenter: &#8220;YOU NEED TO STOP AND THINK FOR A SEC  GREAT YOU BIG CHRISTIAN MAN ! SO KEEP ALL OF YOUR THOUGHTS TO YOUR SELF  YOU DONT WANT PPL TALKIN ABOUT YOUR FAMILY SO DONT TALK BOUT OTHERS.&#8221;</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #666699;">McCance  responded with, &#8220;I would disown my kids they were gay. They will not be  welcome at my home or in my vicinity. I will absolutely run them off.  Of course my kids will know better. My kids will have solid christian  beliefs. See it infects everyone.</span>&#8220;</p>
<p>Go <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Fire-Clint-McCance/170421922968484"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>here</strong></span></a> to join a Facebook page calling for McCance&#8217;s removal.</p>
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