If I could share some accumulated wisdom with my younger self, it would sound about like this Dear Abby, As another year wraps up, I realize I’ve owed you a letter for way too long. I know you feel hopelessly awkward and out of sync with people, but you haven’t been around long enough yet [...]
And why don’t gay men get a cool name derived from Greek mythology? It may not be the topic that most LGBT activists are clamoring to address, but the unspoken differences that divide the boy bars from the girl bars can be seen and felt throughout the country. It’s not because lesbians prefer acoustic rock, [...]
For too long, religious and political maniacs have battled equality and social progress, and we should be tired of it More than eight decades after the Scopes Trial, we’re still fighting that same religious mentality that throws up barriers each time someone fights for an enlightened government or equality for all Americans. Aren’t we tired [...]
Before we don our gym clothes and go back to punishing ourselves at the overcrowded gyms, there’s one more big blow-out night filled with champagne, confetti, poor judgment and a few half-assed resolutions.
The Advocate’s selection of Pope Francis as its Person Of The Year for 2013 signals a major shift in the Catholic Church’s LGBT tone Recently, The Advocate magazine announced its Person Of The Year for 2013, choosing Pope Francis for the title. Since the announcement, the magazine has been defending its choice to some among [...]
I was switched at birth. I’m certain of it, and each time I attend one of those torturous rituals some people call family reunions, I become more convinced there is no possible way I could share any genes with the people who mysteriously share my last name.
A lesson from one Louisiana town on the polite way to send LGBT people back into the closet No sooner had I written a column a few weeks back about how nice it felt to see a rainbow flag in front of Philadelphia’s City Hall, than I saw this headline from July (my online news [...]
When an ex-gay marries, the opposite-sex spouse is a victim who will get hurt when the ex-gay finally decides to come out again One can’t be an official “ex-gay” rock star until wedding bells ring. Apparently, this happened for publicity hound Michael Glatze, who married his prop, er bride, Rebekah, recently. The victim is attractive [...]
The human proclivity to subdue others ensured there never has been a ‘perfect time’ in our history A friend recently posted a status on Facebook, asking everyone “to pray with me to ask God to turn our country back to His perfect ways.” I’ve seen such requests numerous times, and I always shake my head [...]
For the first time in more than a century, Chanukah falls on Thanksgiving giving me more reasons to hate this least important holiday on the Jewish calendar.